“In order to move on, you must understand why you felt what you did and why you no longer need to feel it.”
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August 2010
50 posts
We could all learn something from this.
He’s just not that into you if he’s not asking you out.
An excuse is a polite rejection. Men are not afraid of “ruining the friendship.”
If you can find him, then he can find you. If he wants to find you, he will.
Men don’t forget how much they like you.
So put down the phone.
He’s just not that into you if he’s not calling you.
If he’s not calling you, it’s because you are not on his mind.
If he creates expectations for you, and then doesn’t follow through on little things, he will do the same for big things. Be aware of this and realize that he’s okay with disappointing you.
Don’t be with someone who doesn’t do what they say they’re going to do. If he’s choosing not to make a simple effort that would put you at ease and bring harmony to a recurring fight, then he doesn’t respect your feelings and needs.
“Busy” is another word for “asshole.” “Asshole” is another word for the guy you’re seeing.
He’s just not that into you if he’s not dating you.
Guys tell you how they feel even if you refuse to listen or believe them.
“I don’t want to be in a serious relationship” truly means “I don’t want to be in a serious relationship with you” or “I’m not sure that you’re the one.” (Sorry.)
Better than nothing is not good enough for you!
If you don’t know where the relationship is going, it’s okay to pull over and ask.
Murky? Not good.
There’s a guy out there who will want to tell everyone that he’s your boyfriend.
Quit goofing around and go find him.
He’s just not that into you if he’s having sex with someone else.
There is no excuse for cheating. Let me say it again. There is no excuse for cheating. Now you say it. There is no excuse for cheating.
Cheating is cheating.
It doesn’t matter who it was with or how many times it happened.
Cheating gets easier everytime it’s done. It’s only hard the first time, when one feels the sting of morality and the guilt of betraying someone’s trust.
A cheater only cheats himself, because he doesn’t get to be with you.
He’s just not that into you if he only wants to see you when he’s drunk.
Drinking and drug use are not a path to one’s innermost feelings. Otherwise people wouldn’t smash empty beer cans against their skulls or stick their fingers in fire to see if they can feel anything.
If he only wants to see you, talk to you, have sex with you, etc., when he’s inebriated, it ain’t love - it’s sport.
Bad boys are actually bad.
He’s just not that into you if he’s avoiding you. You can’t talk your way out of a breakup. It is not up for discussion. A breakup is a definite action, not a democratic one.
Breakup sex means you’re still broken up.
Cut him off. Let him miss you.
He’s just not that into you if he’s disappeared on you.
He might just be lying in the hospital with amnesia, but more likely he’s just not that into you.
No answer is no answer.
Don’t give him the chance to reject you again.
Let his mother yell at him. You’re too busy.
He’s just not that into you if he’s seeing someone else (and other insane variations of being unavailable)
Unless he’s all yours, he’s still hers.
Don’t be that girl.
Reset Your Standards:
EXAMPLE
A standard is setting a level for yourself of what you will or won’t tolerate. You get to decide how it’s going to be for you. You can now design the person you want to be in the future, and the standards you want to have. Write your new standards down so you’ll never ever forget them, no matter how cute he is or how long it’s been since you’ve had sex. Make sure you know what you stand for and what you believe in.
Never Win
Fischerspooner
I don‘t need to need you
Tell me what to do, tell me what to say
Don‘t you wanna help me?
Tell me what to do, help me find a way
If I was not me I would hate me too
Just like you do
It’s all made worse by a simple scheme,
You’re slipping away from me
Can‘t decide sometimes if it‘s worth the point
The point is the struggle, insecurity
Hopefully, you make no mistake
If you learn from what you‘ve got to take
Good or bad, it‘s all gonna add up in the end but,
You can never win.
And it‘s the desperation to hold on to
Something that can‘t be held on to
So don‘t waste your time filling up my words
Don‘t tell me why, assume the worst.
QUESTION: Why do bad things happen to good people?
ANSWER: Doesn’t everyone consider themselves a good person? I’ve never met anyone who thought he or she was truly a bad person. Even history’s worst villains believed they were doing the right thing. So if a bad thing happens to you, you’re probably a bad person but just aren’t aware of it. Good question.
Goodbye Australia, hello Europe.
In five hours I leave the harsh rain and gloomy weather behind, on an adventure that will change my life.
I have written over 30 new blogs, put on queue to be published for every day I am away. A reminder that although I’m half a world away, it’s really not that far.
Take care of yourself. I miss you already.
