Advice everyone should probably take. Even me,
I found this in my outbox this morning. Remember that time you asked me for my opinion?
Advice is what we ask for when we know the answer, but wish we didn’t.
I’m so sorry to hear all this, I can feel your pain just through your words. And before you read anything further, you need to understand that you do deserve the world. I’m not going to judge whether or not **** gives you that, because only you can decide that, only you understand the whole story 100%.
You’re in a dilemma and there are two choices you can make. You can keep trying, and see where that gets you, or you cannot. Again, no one can judge what you should/could/would do, we can only ever be here to support you whichever choice you make.
Yes, he does sound like he’s learnt a little lesson.
Yes, he obviously isn’t very keen on her given the circumstances.
Yes, I think there are still intense emotions for you, and they aren’t likely to go away. You have a history and there is too much unfinished business.
Yes, if it was me, and it has been in different scenarios, I would give it a time limit. Why? Because you’ve got to decide how much longer you’re prepared to play this game.
But at the same time, whatever is meant to happen, will.
The hardest thing you will ever have to do, is not doing something.
You should never take hollow promises, well reheased bullshit, and you should never, ever, be made to feel like you aren’t good enough. Because you are. No, fuck that, you’re better. Even if you don’t always believe it. I do. There’s a fine line between pleasure and pain.
But I know exactly how you feel. They say there are more fish in the sea. But fuck, you don’t want fish. You want him. And they say there’s a million more out there, but if that’s the case then why does Romeo still only love Juliet?
It’s almost like your waiting for help. For someone to tell you what the right thing to do is. Even though, at the back of your mind, you already know what that is. So all you’re really waiting for, is a time when you’re forced to do it.
I will always be here for you, no matter what you do.
As long as you’re happy, so am i.
